Pastor Bisi Adewale Sparks Reactions With Bold Bedroom Advice to Couples
Popular Nigerian marriage counsellor, Pastor Bisi Adewale, has sparked massive reactions online after delivering what many have dubbed a “bold bedroom sermon.”
In a viral clip from his recent appearance on The Honest Bunch Podcast, the well-known family and relationship coach urged both singles and married couples to stop treating intimacy as a chore and instead embrace it as a vital part of marriage.
“If You Don’t Enjoy Lovemaking, Don’t Get Married” – Pastor Bisi Adewale
Speaking candidly during the interview, Pastor Adewale stated that anyone who dislikes intimacy has no business getting married, stressing that marriage requires both physical and emotional connection.
In his words:
“If you don’t like lovemaking, please don’t get married. All these missionary people normally do in marriages must stop. There’s nowhere in the Bible that says women shouldn’t be at the top.”
Mixed Reactions Trail His Statement
The pastor’s comments quickly went viral, dividing opinions across social media platforms.
While some users praised him for his honesty and for challenging conservative bedroom attitudes, others criticized the tone of his message, calling it “too explicit for a man of God.”
One user commented, “Finally, a pastor who says the truth about marriage in plain language.”
Another quipped, “This one no be sermon again — na marriage masterclass!”
Regardless of the debate, Pastor Bisi Adewale’s remarks have reignited conversations around sexual communication, compatibility, and modern Christian marriage expectations.